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SECTION
THREE
Identifying
four-leg experiences and their value
..........Can you afford to ignore
these seldom recognized, but well-documented by research, phenomena?
Personal or
professional relationships that are genuinely connected with
Nature are more enjoyable, successful and responsible than those
isolated from Nature.
Nature-isolated
people suffer from excessive stress, conflict and destructiveness.
Contact with nature helps them transform and recycle back into
peaceful and responsibly balanced relationships.
..........If you have ever had
a good experience in Nature, you know far more about the Natural
Systems Thinking Process (NSTP) than you might realize. We identify
some 4-leg experiences, below, because our 5-leg thinking is
usually conditioned to overlook their value. NSTP helps you validate
and explain these phenomena because otherwise, too often, we
take nature's messages and benefits for granted. For example:
Have you ever:
- -wanted to
go to a natural outdoor area for your vacation
- -had a good
experience in nature that made you feel happier to be alive?
- -longed for
a livelihood that further contributed to personal and global
balance rather than exploited Earth and .people?
- -noticed that
disorders tend to subside and stress fade in Nature?
- -loved a pet,
plant or place that made life .....more
worthwhile?
Have you ever:
- -treasured
a rock, or totem that helped you through troubled times?
- - felt greater
love for a person or people while in a natural area? Noticed
that it is easier to build and sustain relationships there?
- - felt, at
times, as drawn to Mother Earth as you would a caring human parent
that you loved?
- - noticed
that in nature you can think more ..clearly?
Have you ever:
- -had strong
sensations about connections between yourself and nature or earth
that you know are real but you can't easily explain?
- -felt angry
or sad about how we injure or destroy the natural environment
and/or its people and diversity?
- -noticed that
counseling, education and healing are more effective when they
include quality time in natural areas?
- -discovered
new phenomena or senses that connect you with life that are often
absent in indoor environments?
Have you ever:
- -read the
scientific studies that document how reconnecting our thinking
and feeling to our psychological and biological origins in nature
has.beneficial learning,
healing, and environmental effects? (Appendix D)
..........The experience(s) with
nature described above, or others you may have had, demonstrate
that nature has its own 4-leg healing energies and perfection
that attractively register in us because we are part of nature.
You did not need special training or books to enjoy or learn
from these experiences.
..........Ongoing research (Appendix
D)
shows that neither nature nor people(s) whose thinking is consciously
connected to it, produce the destructive stress, violence and
corruption too often found in contemporary society. People in
contact with nature recover faster from illness and enjoy many
additional benefits. It also shows that our addictive 5-leg thinking
has been trained to downplay the value of our natural system
experiences. It often calls them escapes, fuzzy thinking or recreation
instead of re-creation.
..........The Natural Systems
Thinking Process in this book empowers you with a teachable tool
that safely increases, strengthens and improves these experiences
and their benefits. It works well
because experience is the best teacher.
..........Although we may give
Nature lip service, we routinely relate to it as our slave or
prisoner. We normally manage, exploit or kill Nature for profit
even while knowing that we are part of it and it is our life
support system. We have subdued within us the ability to actively
recognize that as part of Nature, we share its natural systems.
We learn to take far too lightly that what we do to nature we
also do to ourselves.
..........Our cultural prejudice
against Nature often prevents us from validating and celebrating
our Nature-connected experiences. We fail to recognize them as
"in tune" moments; moments when Nature fully touches
itself in us,
becomes whole, and purifies its wholeness in our
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awareness so
that we feel better and more alive , revived, after having
contact with a naural area.
..........Too often, we learn to overlook how
nature-connected moments make sense, feel attractive and have
healing qualities. We seldom acknowledge that because the rewards
from these moments are more sensible and powerful than the rewards
from our destructive, irrational, psychological additions, the
energies in these moments can help us to transform our destructive
attachments into constructive relationships.
........ If you could bottle
the effects of good moments in nature you could sell the product
for a fortune.
..........The Natural Systems Thinking Process
helps you recognize that this 5-leg bottling idea is foolish.
With respect to nature, nobody has yet to find a substitute for
the real thing and its eons of experience. To bottle it would
be to disconnect it from the integrity of its wholeness and that
is its secret to success. You would lose the very essence of
what you thought you were bottling. That's what pills, media
and technologies are trying to do now. They are often part of
our problem; not the solution.
..........People who learn and
practice the NSTP science of reconnecting their thinking with
nature improve their personal, professional and environmental
wellness. We invite you to engage in this process through this
book and the course it contains.
..........The best way to learn
this process is dothe activities and then discuss them in community.
For many of us, the most available community is on-line with
us at Project Nature Connect. Enjoy the many new opportunities
that present themselves as you do the activities.
..........WARNING! With respect
to self-improvement it is practically useless to read this book
and not do the activities. Recognize that your socialized tendency
is to know and understand NSTP with 5-leg thinking and resist
doing the activities. Not doing them may get you a 5-leg "A"
for a course that you actually flunk if your goal is to improve
relationships beyond the superficial.
..........One important thing
to note about NSTP is that it works well because it is a complete
process. If your 5-leg thinking tells you to ignore or shortcut
part of the process because you already "know" it,
your 5-leg thinking is probably misleading you. You may know
how to drive a car, but if you don't get in the car and drive
it to where you want to go, you won't get there.
..........Although this book
teaches you The Natural Systems Thinking Process, it cannot alone
help you to reconnect your 4-leg natural thinking with your 5-leg
socialized thinking and verbalization.
An important part of this process is sharing with another person
what happened when you connected with nature through an activity.
You then learn from that person what they liked or found worthwhile
in what you shared. Vice versa, that person sharing with you
their results from doing the activity, and your response to them,
is equally important. This sharing provides even greater benefits
and learning if you are sharing with a small group of diverse
people. In addition, if one of these people has already had some
experience with NSTP, a deeper level of sharing can be achieved.
When done correctly, such sharing enables us to 9-leg connect
with natural systems in each other, even though we've never met.
We learn to know, trust and love each other through the natural
attractions that are us, each other and nature.
..........Over the past 12 years,
sharing via email and telephone has proven very effective. You
can make arrangements to engage in the sharing experience by
email through our web site at www.ecopsych.com.
..........Sharing is built into
the on-line Orientation Course that this book represents, as
well as all our other on-line courses. On-line, NSTP become customized
to address and reconnect the reader's personal disconnections.
..........Sadly, many of us contain
a natural part of our psyche that suffers from Natural Attraction
Desensitization Syndrome (NADS). That part of us has become frightened,
hurt and angry because contemporary society and its disconnected
5-leg thinking has painfully put it in a jail for crimes it never
committed. There it suffers the discontents of guilt, shame,
depression, greed, isolation, stress, dependencies, aggression,
insensitivity, and the many other NADS disorders that plague
us and society. That part of us has good reason to mistrust organized
education, psychology and science. It is even afraid that the
process that has created nature-connected learning and activities
will harm it, even while it also knows that a long walk in the
park is usually refreshing.
.........Each NSTP activity
demonstrates to the NADS part of us that nature's healing ways
and supportive community are much more powerful than 5-leg NADS
disconnection and its discomfort.
..........It is well worth keeping
in mind that some things this book touches upon may at first
feel uncomfortable. This is because the book sometimes addresses
inaccuracies in 5-leg thinking. Remember, it is the 5-leg part
of you that is literate, doing the reading and so that part of
you becomes confronted. Similar to validating a dog's tail as
not being one of its legs, you may help yourself restore your
equilibrium by doing the activities and obtaining worthwhile
4-leg information through them.
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